Jesus, The Betrayed 3-22-26 AM

I.            Dear friend’s disloyalty.

a.      Did you notice how the psalmist described his betrayer?

           i.      Mine own familiar friend.

           ii.      Newer versions have “my own close friend.”

b.      The phrase “familiar friend” comes from the Hebrew term for peace.

           i.      This was a person in whom David had found peace.

           ii.      There was a closeness there that went beyond mere friendship.

c.       He then says, “in whom I trusted.”

           i.      David had listened to this person and learned from him.

           ii.      David trusted the counsel he had given him.

d.      David went on to say this man “did eat of my bread.”

           i.      To sit at a meal with a person in that day indicated closeness.

           ii.      Not only that, not everyone got to sit at the king’s table.

           iii.      Only those close to the king were trusted enough to have that honor.

e.      The phrase “has lifted up his heel against me” pictures a horse that kicks at its owner.

f.       What we see is a picture of great betrayal.

g.     We don’t know for sure, but this picture of a betrayer fits that of David’s friend Ahithophel.

          i.      We know about David’s sin with Bathsheba.

          ii.      We also probably remember that part of the punishment was the child from that illicit encounter was going to die.

          iii.      Do you remember the other part of the punishment (2 Sam. 12:10-11)?

h.    The fulfillment of this is recorded in 2 Samuel 15-17, where we read about Absalom’s rebellion against David.

         i.      We first read the name of Ahithophel in 2 Sam. 15:12.

         ii.      We then read where David is told that Ahithophel is with Absalom and listen to what David says (2 Sam. 15:31).

         iii.      Why would David pray that prayer?

         iv.      The answer is in 2 Sam. 16:23.

i.      Ahithophel had been a counselor to David it seems.

         i.      He had given counsel so often and so well, he had obtained a tremendous amount of respect.

         ii.      We are never told why, but Ahithophel turned against David and went with Absalom into rebellion against David.

j.       This is the force of the phrase “has lifted up his heel against me.”

k.     The one who had been at peace at the table has now become the one in rebellion.

l.      What we learn from this is that some of life’s biggest heartaches do not come from strangers, but from those who are nearest to us.

          i.      This is why betrayal feels different than opposition.

          ii.      Opposition comes from outside while betrayal comes from the inside.

          iii.      We don’t see it coming like we can opposition.

m.    Faithfulness to God does not exempt us from relational pain.

          i.      We can walk with God and still be hurt by those closest to us.

          ii.      It may be a spouse or a child.

          iii.      It may be a fellow preacher, elder, or Christian.

n.     Nearness is not the same as loyalty.

o.     A man can sit at the king’s table and still have rebellion in his heart.

p.     Psalm 41:9 is bigger than David though.

q.     David’s pain points beyond itself to a greater King who would be betrayed at the table.

 II.            Disciple’s disloyalty.

a.     John 13:18.

b.     Jesus expressly and plainly quotes our passage from Psalm 41.

          i.      He applies it to Himself and His being betrayed by one right there at the table with Him.

          ii.      Jesus is telling us that David’s betrayal long ago was not just an isolated moment in Israel’s history.

          iii.      It was a moment that was truly pointing to a much greater betrayal.

c.      David was a betrayed king.

d.      Jesus is the betrayed King of kings.

e.      It is amazing to think that Judas walked with Jesus for three years.

          i.      He saw many of the miracles.

          ii.      He heard much of the teaching.

          iii.      He had spent time with the group.

          iv.      He was present at the table.

f.     I believe that may be the very point of Jesus quoting Psalm 41:9 here – the betrayal comes from one who shared the meal.

g.    Judas is close enough to hear Jesus, to eat with Jesus, to be counted among the disciples, yet far enough away in his heart to hand Jesus over to the mob.

h.     This is makes the betrayal so shocking.

         i.      It would be understandable if someone Jesus did not know found where He was and then brought soldiers to arrest Jesus.

         ii.      Judas is familiar.

         iii.      He looks like a disciple.

         iv.      He walks with the disciples.

         v.      He is in the midst of the disciples.

i.      But his heart belongs to someone else.

j.      Nearness to Jesus is not the same as devotion to Jesus.

         i.      We can be around truth but still resist it.

         ii.      We can do holy things but still love unholy things.

         iii.      We can sit among people of God and still be spiritually false.

k.    Judas is a warning to all Christians who assume that closeness to religious activity equals faithfulness to Christ.

l.      We can sit near Jesus and still sell Him out.

m.   We may know the songs, the sermons, the prayer language or whatever.

         i.      We can know when to stand, when to sing, when to say amen, when to bow our heads.

         ii.      Religious knowledge and familiarity is not saving faith.

n.     Judas had exposure to Jesus.

         i.      Judas had opportunities with Jesus.

         ii.      Judas had access to Jesus.

         iii.      But, Judas never surrendered his heart to Jesus.

o.     The great issue is not, “Am I around Jesus,” but is “Am I submitted to Jesus?”

p.    Judas had what many people assume is enough: information, association, and participation. None of those things can replace devotion.”

q.    A person can stand in a garage all day and never become a car; just like a person can sit in church every week and still not be surrendered to Jesus.

r.     The seed of betrayal did not die out with ancient counselors or false disciples and that leads us to our last point.

III.            Daily disloyalty.

a.    Titus 1:16.

b.    Luke 6:46.

c.    Our mouths can speak loyalty while our lives are led in betrayal.

d.    When we excuse sin, protect sin, justify sin, hide sin, or cling to sin, we are doing more than just breaking a rule.

         i.      We are being traitors to a King.

         ii.      We are betraying the One who loves us and died for us.

e.     Sin isn’t just a failure, it is personal, against God, and a betrayal of Jesus.

f.      We may never betray Jesus with silver in our hand.

g.    We can betray Him with lust in our hearts.

         i.      With pride in our hearts.

         ii.      With dishonesty or cussing in our speech.

         iii.      With bitterness or hatred in our souls.

         iv.      With hypocrisy in our worship.

         v.      With half-hearted obedience in our daily lives.

h.    Sin can kiss Jesus and still deny Him.

         i.      This is exactly what Judas did in the garden.

         ii.      It looked like affection, but it was pure treachery and betrayal.

         iii.      We can say Lord with our lips while our lives are saying something else.

i.      We need to ask ourselves some questions:

         i.      What sin am I protecting right now?

         ii.      What area of obedience am I resisting right now?

         iii.      Where am I close to Jesus publicly but betraying Him privately?

j.      What happens in sermons like this is that, usually, the most faithful among us respond to the invitation, while those of us who are weak sit still.

k.     I am not saying these things to drive the faithful to the front.

l.       I am saying these things to drive those of us who are weak to repentance.

m.    Ahithophel gives us the pattern.

n.     Judas gives us the fulfillment.

o.     Our own sins show the ongoing danger.

p.     The truth is: public devotion can hide private disloyalty.

q.     A wedding ring on the hand does not guarantee faithfulness in the heart.

          i.      Symbols matter but they cannot be a substitute for loyalty.

          ii.      The Bible in the hand, a song on the lips, or a seat in the pew on Sunday cannot substitute for a surrendered life.